Today is Safer Internet Day and therefore what better topic to blog about than keeping our kids safe while they are online.
Had it not been for Safer Internet Day, I probably wouldn’t have given this much thought for the next few months. My kids aren’t old enough for social media. But no age is too early to start educating our kids and my somewhat blasé approach really needs to change!
We need to make sure all of our kids know the basics of online safety before handing them a device. And this is turn means we also need to know the basics! Us parents need to step up and play a big role in how our kids are using the internet – and technology in general. It is our responsibility to teach our kids how to be safe in all aspects of their life – including online.
Safety online is no different from safety in the big wide world. It comes down to a handful of rules:
Watch what you say and to whom you say it
Watch what you say and to whom you say it
This is just as true for the Internet as it is for the streets. One of the first things we teach our kids is ‘stranger danger’. We need to make sure we’re teaching our kids what is ok to share online and only ever with people they trust. Think of communicating online as face-to-face chats. Basically, if they wouldn’t say it someone’s face, why would they post it online? Once written down either in a message, on a forum, on social media etc., it can be shared. The written word can be taken out of context very quickly which can lead to confusion, heartache and regret. Never ever share personal details online and make sure all social media accounts are set to private. Kids may feel like they know the internet better than us, but they’re not old enough to deal with any fallout that may arise.
Don’t be fooled
Don’t be fooled
Never trust everything you read or see and never click on anything because you’re asked to. As an adult, we come across scams regularly – whether it’s bogus emails, spam calls, hacking attempts, fake news – we are used to questioning what we read. Kids aren’t. We need to explain to our kids that some people take on false identities and lie to trick them into sharing information. Usually, if they’re offered something for free or have won a competition they never entered, they need to question what this could be and have the confidence to come to us if they’re unsure about anything. Kids (of all ages) are new and vulnerable targets. Once again, it comes down to life experience and it is up to us to share our knowledge and just make sure they’re aware! Hyper vigilance is better than ignorance and naivety.
Password protected
Password protected
Be kind
Be kind
Going back to one of the first points I made, the internet can quickly take things out of context and ultimately out of control. We can’t change the fact that social media plays (or will play) a big part in our childrens’ lives. We need to guide them in using these sites positively. Teach them kindness and acceptable behavior online just as we would in their day-to-day lives. They need to be responsible for their actions and realise that any form of bullying is totally unacceptable.
Openness
Openness
And finally…
And finally…
- Always set ground rules
- Use a timer control (it’s easy to forget yourself when the house is quiet because everyone is on a device)
- Be proactive. Make sure you are aware of what your kids are watching and that it’s appropriate – YouTube has a history and parental controls can (and should) be set.
- Creativity is far more fun. If you have younger kids, get creative and let them experience rather than watch others experience it all.
- Be available. Always take time to listen if your kids are unsure of anything they are experiencing online. A small issue can quickly tumble out of control.
- Take time to discuss online safety and try to understand how aware your child is of their own safety. Make a checklist of safety rules to follow.
- Remind yourself and your child that a digital footprint can (and will) impact your life so it’s vital that the footprint is a positive one.
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Use Safer Internet Day as the time you change the way you and your kids use the internet and stay safe online!
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