Dyslexia in teens and tweens: A comprehensive guide

Managing dyslexia in teens and tweens presents families with a very different set of issues than with primary aged kids. The teenage years in general can be challenging and adding dyslexia to the mix – especially as academic demands increase – can increase the likelihood of anxiety, a lack of confidence and a detachment from school. However, with the right strategies and support, children can thrive both in and out of the classroom.

Below are key points to consider when coping with dyslexia in early teens and tweens:

Understand the nature of dyslexia

• Dyslexia affects each child differently, so it’s essential to be aware that what works for one child may not work for another. If your child has already been diagnosed for some time, you may already be familiar with what works. However, if it’s a new diagnosis, trial and error plays a big part in the beginning coping strategies.
• Dyslexia often involves slower processing speeds, making it difficult for children to keep up with reading assignments or note-taking. Using skills such as touch typing and tools such as speech-to-text will have a hugely positive impact. It takes away the added stress of keeping up while manually writing. Your child’s school should have accommodations in place to allow them to make the most of technology.

I cannot rate Touch, Type, Read and Spell highly enough. It is without doubt the best touch-typing program we have used.

• While dyslexia presents challenges, many individuals with dyslexia have strong problem-solving skills and creative abilities. Identifying these strengths can help boost self-esteem. Click here to discover strengths of dyslexia that are generally overlooked.

Early intervention and assessment

• Early identification and intervention are crucial. If dyslexia is suspected, seek a professional assessment as soon as possible. If however your child has reached their teen years without a diagnosis, not all hope is lost!  For starters, it might bring a sense of relief in your child that there is a reason they struggle so much. Once a diagnosis is in place, interventions can be introduced and the right support given in school to ensure hurdles can be easier overcome.  My blog series on dyslexia in the classroom is a must-read for all parents and teachers.
• Once diagnosed, a personalized education plan (IEP) can be developed to address specific needs, such as extra time on tests or the use of assistive technology. This should be arranged by your child’s school. If you are homeschooling a child with dyslexia, you will find advice on homeschooling and dyslexia here.

Utilize assistive technology

For a comprehensive guide to the best apps for dyslexia, read my blog here

• Tools like audiobooks and text-to-speech software can help children with dyslexia access written material more easily.
• For children who struggle with writing, speech-to-text tools can be invaluable, allowing them to express their thoughts without the barrier of spelling or handwriting.
• Many tweens and teens with dyslexia benefit from apps that help with organization and time management. Mind maps are a crucial tool for older learners with dyslexia. There are many free ones available online which a quick Google search will show up.
• As I mentioned above, touch-typing skills should also be developed. The muscle memory used in touch typing will also help with spelling.

Adopt multi-sensory learning techniques

• Multi-sensory learning involves using visual, auditory, and tactile techniques simultaneously to enhance memory and learning. For example, combining verbal instructions with hands-on activities or using color-coded notes can help reinforce concepts. Audiobooks are a great addition to reading. Students can listen to texts while reading them.
• Programs that use a structured approach, such as the Orton-Gillingham method, can be highly effective for children with dyslexia. These programs focus on breaking down language into smaller parts and teaching these systematically.

Encourage a growth mindset

• Dyslexia in teens and tweens can often be a trigger for anxiety related issues. Therefore, it’s so important to encourage children to see challenges as opportunities for growth rather than as insurmountable obstacles. The focus should be on effort and persistence, not just success/outcomes.
• Help children develop coping strategies for when they encounter difficulties. This could include taking breaks during homework, practicing mindfulness, or learning to ask for help when needed. Building resilience at this age is crucial to learning, adapting and building confidence.

My blog on dyslexia and anxiety has some useful information on helping your child find coping methods. 

Provide emotional and social support

• Following on from the above, it’s vital to encourage open communication about dyslexia and its impact. Validate your child’s feelings and reassure them that they are not alone. Connecting with other children who have dyslexia can provide a sense of community and reduce feelings of isolation. Dyslexia affects 1 in 5 children so it’s pretty likely that at least one of their peer group/year group faces similar challenges.
• While time is a constant issue for us adults, it’s important to stay as involved in your child’s education as possible. Regularly communicate with teachers and be an advocate for your child’s needs.

Work together with educators

• Ensure that your child’s teachers are aware of their dyslexia and understand the best ways to support them in the classroom. These top tips for teachers are a must-read. Feel free to share them with your child’s teacher(s).
• Your child’s school should implement necessary accommodations, such as extended test times, alternative formats for assignments, and access to classroom notes. However your child will have had to be formally diagnosed with dyslexia to receive these.

Promote a balanced lifestyle

• Regular physical activity should be encouraged. This will help reduce stress and improve concentration.
• Support your child in pursuing hobbies and interests outside of academics. These can provide a sense of accomplishment and build confidence.
• Ensure that your child gets enough sleep. Rest is crucial for cognitive functioning and emotional well-being.

Managing dyslexia in teens and tweens requires a holistic approach that includes academic, emotional, and social support. By understanding their unique challenges, utilizing the right tools and strategies, and fostering a supportive environment, you can help your child navigate the challenges of dyslexia and succeed in all areas of life.